| Location | Swindon |
| Age | 0 |
| Cause of Death | Not Listed? |
| Date of Birth | 14/10/2007 |
| Date of Death | 14/10/2007 |
| Visitors | 3,235 since 04/01/2008 |
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Two little flowers lent not given, to bud on earth and bloom in heaven
Im going to tell you something
I hope youll never have to know.
ill tell you how a heart can break
And tears can constant flow.
I lost my baby girls you see,
both angels in my eyes
God chose to take there hands one day
And led them to the skies.
But please do not forget my girls
they were a person too
And forever they will live
Inside of me and you.
So, please dont ever tell me
That time will heal my pain
Because not even time
Can bring them back again.
Just tell me they are happy
In that land way up above
they are snuggled in an angels wings
All wrapped in Mummy and Daddys love
An angel wrote in the book of life, Ella and Jaya's date of birth she whispered as she closed the
book.... too beautiful for this world.
Both born and died on the 14th October 2007 at the great Western Hospital.
Ella meaning beautiful fairy women was born first at 2.42am and weighed 420g
Jaya meaning victory was born at 2.49am and weighed only 415g.
Two identical twin sisters to each other, daughters to Tia and Liam ,big sisters to charlie-jaylen
born sunday 14th sept 2008, Grandchildren to Sharon and Pete, Jay, Mick and Liz. Ella and Jaya will
now be joinging my 2 sisters in heaven, Donna and Tysanne and auntys angels Ben and Adam
I was told I had gone into early labour and had a cervical stitch put in to help keep them safe
untill the end, but my contractions got worse so was told i had to have it removed otherwise my
cervix would be ripped open and would be fatal. I was told there was nothing they could do and they
cannot survive.
Little did we know that morning God was going to call your names in life i loved you dearly, in
death I love you the same
All I could do is lay waiting knowing there future, they took two days to be born it was a
unbearable wait, i cant explain what it was like still feeling them move knowing they were going to
die, all i want to do is protect my babies i felt so useless.
I know that they did not want to leave me they held on so long to try to stay but they were just to
innocent and small for this world.
They was brought out to me holding hands, they were so beautiful, my first words were there so
beautiful, i cant believe there mine, I was so proud of them both and still am.
They were my daughters, my everything my future, my happiest memories il ever have was being
pregnant with these girls i had so many plans for us they were so loved.
They both had dark hair the cutest button noses and there daddys lips
When i first saw them i was so happy to see them and so proud they were mine they were sleeping
angels, so beautiful. They looked just like me and their Daddy!
When i held Ella her nose started running it was so sweet, i got really upset because they were both
so cold i just wanted to take care of them and keep them safe and warm.
I never got to say hello or even goodbye i miss them so much! They were taken so quickly from this
world!
No other words could describe them other than beautiful, so I had James Blunt-Your beautiful played
at the funeral it was a perfect song for my girls, it was such a nice service, I had Ella and Jaya
put together in their little white coffin, they were sent to heaven together, in all the scans they
were always touching each other, they were best friends from the start and will now be together
forever.
I have two children that I really love so
I am there mother yet nobody knows
I spent all those months feeling them grow
I've lived through it all and have nothing to show
I don't get invited to chat with young mothers
Because I don't have a baby like all of the others
The people I’ve known for so many years
They now avoid me, which adds to my tears
I don't know how long I'll be feeling like this
But one thing I know my baby’s I miss
When Mothers Day comes it will be very hard
I won't have any flowers, not even a card
And just because there not here with me
I still have two daughters I wish I could see
But one thing I know and this is for sure
I'll be Ella and Jaya’s mother for evermore
I have two little daughters, who mean the world to me
there living with the Angels and our as special as can be
And even though there up there, playing in the clouds
Ella and Jaya are still my precious daughters and I am so very proud!
There picture takes pride of place on my wall
Ready to be admired by all who come to call
I know I can not hold them both, or bounce them on my knee
But I only have to close my eyes, there little faces to see
I never will stop missing my baby’s and wishing they were here
But sometimes I feel, indeed I know that they’re both so very near
So play happily my little daughters, you will never be forgot.
I love you both so very much and always will, I miss you a lot .
I dont know what to do without you both your so perfect and beautiful your everything i dreamed you
would be, my heart is broken without you and no matter how hard i try it will never be fixed or
replaced, you are my little girls i love you so much so look after each other and watch down on
mummy and daddy untill we will be together, one sweet day, I wish I could have went with you both
and we could be together, why did they try to save me and not you?,
i have never felt love the way i have for you, i will never be the same whilst im not with you, i
think you took a part of my heart with you, im never going to be the same person again untill i can
see you and mend my broken heart. XXx
i have just been told that i cannot move you into a proper grave like i wanted because you do not
have any remains, so you are no where on this earth so i can never visit you!
i feel like you have been let down by everyone and especially by the great western hospital for all
the distress they caused me by the things they done to me.
i wanted a proper grave for you so i could visit you both as i never got the chance to after i left
hospital as i wasnt told i could so i will always feel guilty for that, now you are totally gone i
will never get the chance to make it up to you now, you both deserve alot better than you have been
treated im sorry.
I promise I will never let anyone forget you, I love you so much Ella and Jaya.
Thank you for showing me what true love is, i love you alll the way up to heaven.
Ella and Jaya I have now named you properly ella-cherry and jaya-summer just as i wanted to when i
was pregnant.
thank you for getting your little brother here safley i have named his middle name after you
(jaylen) hes beautiful i can see you in him too, i love seeing that glimmer of you both,
i will never let anyone forget you were here now i have charlie, you are my special first borns, my
little girlys mummy is so sad you are not herei will always miss you, please look after all the new
babys you meet in heaven untill that one sweet day we will rejoin and i can look after you just like
a mum is supposed to i love you so much
love mummy and charlie
I have two little daughters, who mean the world to me
there living with the Angels and our as special as can be
And even though there up there, playing in the clouds
Ella and Jaya are still my precious daughters and I am so very proud!
There picture takes pride of place on my wall
Ready to be admired by all who come to call
I know I can not hold them both, or bounce them on my knee
But I only have to close my eyes, there little faces to see
I never will stop missing my baby’s and wishing they were here
But sometimes I feel, indeed I know that they’re both so very near
So play happily my little daughters, you will never be forgot.
I love you both so very much and always will, I miss you a lot .
R.I.P to two precious angels
Sorry for your loss. Awful to loose one baby but too. This must of been a heard time for you.
Ella and Jaya
R.I.P both of you. Keep each other company
Babies are angels that fly to the Earth,
their wings disappear at the time of their birth,
one look in their eyes and we're never the same.
They're part of us now and that part has a name,
that part is your heart and a bond that won't sever
our babies are angels, we love them forever.
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2 lil sweethearts that will never be forgoten <3
i no u gorgus girls are sleeping peacefully together.i never actually got the chance to meet u or hold u or be a great aunty 2 u like i wanted 2 b.....but i no if you were still hear u wuld be the most lovely and sweet nieces in the world......i love u girls......forever in mi heart xxxxxx
i wish we got to keep ours
God makes little children
He makes them every day
And though He loves them dearly
He gives them all away.
He gives each to an angel
And says take baby down
To such and such a mother
In such and such a town.
Or such and such a cottage
In such and such a place.
He gives the angel with it
A big soul full of grace.
God does so love those children
It's all that He can do
To let the Angel take them
But he loves the mother's too.
And so he says I'll lend you
This little one of mine
The angel folds it's love
About the special gift divine.
The angel watches over
The child both day and night
So glad to see that lovely soul
All shining in God's light
God makes so many children
And every now and then
He seems to want one specially
We don't know why or when
He whispers to its Angel
Bring the child back to me
The angel sees a lovely sight
That someday we may see
It sees the souls of mothers
And fathers in God's light
Offering him tiny children
Whose souls are shining bright
God does so love those children
Whos souls are never dim
And how he loves those parents
Who give them back to him.
R.I.P. baby girls
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hi tia
i saw this and thought of you. i hope you have had an ok day. speak soon. caroline xx
Can You Be A Mother When Your Baby Is Not With You? ~
I thought of you and closed my eyes
And prayed to God today
I asked 'What makes a Mother?'
And I know I heard Him say.
'A Mother has a baby'
This we know is true
'But God can you be a Mother,
when your baby's not with you?'
'Yes, you can,' He replied
With confidence in His voice
'I give many women babies,
When they leave is not their choice.
Some I send for a lifetime,
And others for the day
And some I send to feel your womb,
But there's no need to stay.'
'I just don't understand this God
I want my baby to be here.'
He took a deep breath and cleared His throat,
And then I saw the tear.
'I wish I could show you,
What your child is doing today.
If you could see your child's smile,
With all the other children and say...'
We go to earth to learn our lessons,
Of love and life and fear,
My mommy loved me oh so much,
I got to come straight here.
I feel so lucky to have a Mom,
Who had so much love for me
I learned my lessons very quickly
My mommy set me free.
I miss my mommy oh so much
But I visit her every day.
When she goes to sleep,
On her pillows were I lay
I stroke her hair and kiss her cheek,
And whisper in her ear
Mommy don't be sad today,
I'm your baby and I'm here.'
'So you see my dear sweet ones,
Your children are okay.
Your babies are born here in My home
And this is where they'll stay.'
'They'll wait for you with Me,
Until your lessons through.
And on the day that you come home
they'll be at the gates for you.
So now you see what makes a Mother,
It's the feeling in your heart
It's the love you had so much of
Right from the very start.
Though some on earth may not realize
You are a mother.
Until their time is done.
They'll be up here with Me one day
and know that you are the best one.'
So sorry.
So very sorry about your beautiful girls. Sometimes life is so cruel. Please know that you are not alone in all this, I lost my son Lewis on the 8th Oct 2006 also at the Great Western hospital Swindon. He lived for 12 days, after being born at just under 26 weeks. Its true what they say time does help to heal a bit. Im not sure if i will ever be the same person, but you learn to live with it. I feel liked ive cried for an eternity, but recovery comes with working through the pain.
The Four Candles burned slowly.
Their ambiance was so soft you could hear them speak...
The first candle said, 'I Am Peace, but these days, nobody wants to keep me lit.'
Then Peace's flame slowly diminished and went out completely.
The second candle said, 'I Am Faith, but these days, I am no longer indispensable.'
Then Faith's flame slowly diminished and went out completely.
Sadly the third candle spoke, 'I Am Love and I haven't the strength to stay lit any longer.'
'People put me aside and don't understand my importance.
They even forget to love those who are nearest to them.'
And waiting no longer, Love went out completely.
Suddenly...
A child entered the room and saw the three candles no longer burning.
The child began to cry,
'Why are you not burning? You are supposed to stay lit until the end.'
Then the Fourth Candle spoke gently to the little boy,
'Don't be afraid, for I Am Hope, and while I still burn,
we can re-light the other candles.'
With shining eyes, the child took the Candle of Hope
and lit the other three candles.
Never let the Flame of Hope go out.
With Hope in your life, no matter how bad things may be,
Peace, Faith and Love may shine brightly once again.
Author Unknown
Hope you like the above someone it was posted on Lewis's site. Thinking of you. XXXXX
dear tia
i am so sorry for your loss of your beautiful girls.
Ask my Mum how she is
My mum, she tells a lot a lies
she never did before
but from now until she dies
she'll tell a whole lot more
Ask my mum how she is
and because she cannot explain
she will tell a little lie
Because she cannot describe the pain
Ask my mum how she is
She'll say 'im alright'
if that's the truth then tell me
why does she cry each night
Ask my mum how she is
see seems to cope so well
she didn't have a choice you see
Nor the strength to yell
Ask my mum how she is
'i'm fine, i'm well, i'm coping'
For God's sake mum just tell the truth
Just say your heart is broken
She'll love me all her life
I loved her all of mine
But if you ask her how she is
She'll lie and say I'm fine
I am here in heaven
I cannot hug from here
If she lies don't listen
Hug her and hold her near
On the day we meet again
We'll smile and I'll be bold
I'll say your lucky to get in here mum,
With all the lies you told.
sweet dreams angels
FOR TWO BEAUTIFUL ANGELS
You two girls are very lucky to have such a wonderful mummy and daddy that will always carry you both in their hearts. So look over them always you Beautiful Angels.
There are so many people that will always think of you and never forget you. You have touched so many hearts and even though you can't be here with us you will always be loved and remembered.
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx BLESS YOU ANGELS xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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